If you are a person that is on your computer all the time then I am sure you meet people all the time will online. I know I do... I talk to new people all the time. What I have never been able to bring myself to do is meet someone in person that I have met over the computer. I fear they are not going to be what they claim they are or that they expected me to be someone that I am not. Also most of the people that ask to meet me are usually wanting one thing that I am not willing to give to a stranger... and that is sex. I am sorry but I have respect for myself and cant bring myself to that low of a standard and if you cant accept that then I definitely dont want to meet you.
Well I have now found someone after 12 or so years of talking to people on my computer that I am willing to meet in person. We talk about everything and anything that comes to mind... and the last thing that we talk about is climbing into bed to have sex. We talk about life and the experiences that we have had... or what we would still like to get out of life. This person puts a smile on my face just by being true to himself and accepting me for who I am. I have mentioned a goal that I would like to work towards and this person is willing to help me achieve it with no strings attatched. I think it is cool and I cant wait to see where this takes us... to find out what adventures are arround the corner once the barrier of the computer is taken away! Of course I am nervous but it is a good nervous... those butterflies in your stomache when you are experiencing something good.... not knowing what to expect next! When the time comes I will let you know how it goes and if my gut instinct was right... I am not saying there will be a romantic relationship cause even I dont know if that is what I want... but I do hope that a good friendships is in store!
Sunday, June 04, 2006
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Hun I think it's great you have found someone that you've connected so strongly with.I have met 2 ppl that I've chatted with. One after about a year of chatting (I think I was about 18 when I met him); and one that I have chatted to for 10 yrs. And you're right... there was a certain expectation with one of them - which I was not interested in pursuing. Good luck with your new friendship... hey btw, is he local?
He is here in london
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