Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Thursday Thirteen #2



Thirteen Things I Do To Relax




1... Browse on the internet... I find it very relaxing to chat in the forums that I belong to, read and respond to my emails, chat to my friends on messenger, post my blogs and do anything on the internet! There is so much you can explore through the internet that it is fun, relaxing and very enjoyable
2... Sing!... Yes I love to sing! Whether it be singing along to the radio or a cd or just belting out a tune alcapelo it is not uncommon to hear me sing a tune.... I even use singing to the kids as an excuse to work my singing voice!
3... Write.... I like to write whether it be a letter to a loved one or an entry in one of my blogs or a peom or whatever I find writing to be a great way to relax. As a person that suffers from depression I find that once my thoughts are put down on paper (or on the computer) it is easier to move on in a more relaxing manner.
4... Knit/Crochet/Cross stitch... I am very artsy and creative so being able to use those abilities is very relaxing for me... it is not uncommon to see me working on a project or in my son's scrapbook late into the night. I just get lost in what I am doing and find it an easy way to unwind.
5... Play the piano... I may not be the best but I have always loved the piano and even though I dont have the space for my ever wanted baby grand piano I do have a nice keyboard tha suffices and lets me get lost in the feel of the music that I play.
6... sit in a dark room lit up with as many candles as I can find reading a really good book.... I havent had the time to do this in a long time but it is very relaxing and once again can last late into the night!
7... Cook/Bake... I LOVE to cook! The more people I can cook for the better! When we had another family living with us, putting 3 families under one roof, there were 11 people to cook for. Everyone hated to think of where to begin but I was just in heaven! It has to do with the fact of knowing that many people were satisfied by and enjoyed the meal that I put infront of them!
8... Go for a walk.... There is nothing like going for a walk to wind down and relax. I find that if I am stressed or busy and take the time to go for a walk I am able to see the good things that surround me and the fresh air relaxes me enough to think with a clear uncluttered head.
9... Talk to Myself... You may think it is funny or deranged that I am admitting that I talk to myself but it is something that I have always done! Once again as someone who suffers from depression it has been something that works for me when I need to clear my head to be able to proceed in my day. Once you say something outloud the thought is moved to another part of the brain and then you dont worry about it as much... or at least that is what I tell myself and it works. So if you ever meet me and find me talking to myself I am not crazy... well maybe a little, I am just doing what I have always done! *lol*
10.. Watch T.V. ... I have always enjoyed watching t.v. to relax. It isnt one of my best ways to relax and does take longer for my body and mind to wind down but when I am really interested in the show it does work! I will admit though that I am not a big t.v. watcher even though it is on all the time... I am so used to hearing the t.v. all day while the kids have it on while they play that it has become a soothing background sound as I complete the tasks that I am doing.
11... Watch my son sleep... If I am depressed or stressed I find watching my son sleep peacefully reminds me of the innocence of a child and how they see life through thier eyes. I also remind myself that no matter how hard things are I have been blessed with the most precious gift of all.... a child! That makes all my worries go away and I just sit there and watch the peaceful sleeping of the best thing that has ever happened to my life!
12... Reorganize... I find that when I am stressed or upset reorganizing is my way of giving myself a fresh start and the ability to see things in a new way. It may be something small like moving a knick-knack from here to there to redoing a whole room. Whatever it be it works for me.
13... Sleep... or try to sleep! On top of suffering from depression I also suffer from insomnia! So it is hard to get to sleep at night! But once I do get to sleep I am able to relax and let my body recharge! When I wake up I feel better and am able to start on a new page!




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2. Kailani
3. Deanna
4. Jenny Ryan
5. Benson659
6. Nancy
7. Kelli
8. Kristarella
9. Southern Girl
10. Something's Missing
11. TC
12. Nicole (the great)
13. Barbara
14. Lyn
15. Dane Bramage
16. Mama Duck
17. Zoe
18. You Could Be Here!



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26 comments:

Anonymous said...

I love to take a good nap or a walk, but my piano skills are not what they use to be!!! This is a great list! Happy TT!

Anonymous said...

Great list! I do 1, 2 (even though I can't sing to save my life), 3, 6, 9, 10 and 13.

Southern Girl said...

Crocheting is *very* relaxing! I love to sit back and do it while watching TV -- two ways to relax in one. ;)

My TT is up, too.
http://southern-born-and-bred.blogspot.com

The Merry Rose said...

hi there - i really relate to this list - sounds a lot like me 'cept - i don't have a son [;)] cheers, hope you stop by by my tt. :D

Anonymous said...

Relaxing is good! Goign outside for fresh air is definitely a good thing to do. I sometimes spend whole days inside and it can make me really uptight just not getting any fresh air etc.

*~*Michelle*~* said...

I cook and bake to relax, too. Many people don't understand that, but I love it! It is such an escape!

My Thursday Thirteen is up!

Happy Thursday, LadyLaker!

Anonymous said...

You're so lucky that you can play the piano. I've always wanted to learn. Maybe I'll take lessons when I send Girlie Girl for classes.

Anonymous said...

Great list. I just love to find somewhere quiet to sit and listen to nature.

I also use the internet as an escape. So much better than the TV

My TT is up http://uk.360.yahoo.com/oturns

Olwen

Twisted Cinderella said...

oh and my tt is up too

Twisted Cinderella said...

This is a great list. I do most of these too. I dno't Knit/Crochet/Cross stitch but I do digital scrapbooking instead.

Minerva Jane said...

I too find blogging relaxing. Plus, it's a great way to meet such interesting people. I'll have to try the talking out loud one--although my husband may think I'm a little weird!

Candy Minx said...

Gee, I feel all relaxed just reading your relaxing list.

I like to blare loud music. either techno or rock. Dance a bit.

I also love to re-organize and tidy up organizing stuff. I love it love it and find it so rewarding afterwards. In fact, I guess I often put on techno dance music and then so a little reorganizing!

Good fun list all mellow...

Here is my TT

http://gnosticminx.blogspot.com/2006/08/thursday-thirteen_16.html

Anonymous said...

I like to sit on our chair swing in the back yard and feel the breeze that comes through the patio.

Anonymous said...

Nice list! Glad to know I'm not the only one who finds it helpful to talk to myself :)

Barbara said...

I love your entire list!! Piano is my thing, too - also emailing my friends. Ah, I just love computers!

Check out my Thursday Thirteen

Lisa said...

I do many of these same things and find them relaxing indeed. I suck at crocheting and knitting but I love putting on an audio book and listening and crocheting. I don't really make anything but it is fun.

Great list and thanks for coming to visit snarkypants!

Lyn said...

I want someone else to play the piano while I relax. That would be nice. :-) My T13 - Ice Breakers Edition - is up at Bloggin' Outloud. Thanks! lgp

Renee Nefe said...

Thanks for stopping by my garden. That's how I relax...except for my neighbor's dogs barking at me & my dog when we're out there...that's not at all relaxing.
But after I put my dog in, I make noise to irritate the neighbor's dog...hee hee hee! Yup! I'm that mean.

Sophisticated Writer said...

Great *relaxing* list. I do many if the things you mention here to relax too :)

Dane Bramage said...

I blob to relax. Yes it is a verb too. It means to become an amorphous mass in a comfortable chair.

Great list! My T13 is up at Dane Braqmage

Mama Duck said...

I want to relax! LOL Lil Duck doesn't let me tho ;). Our TT this week is the 13 favorite games of the Lil' Duck - come check it out! Have a wonderful Thursday ;).

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, I often find it difficult to relax. Maybe I'll check back to this list in the future

Anonymous said...

I do a lot of the same things as you!

Anonymous said...

This was really good to read. Thank you for all the ideas. I am really going through a rough time. This was great.

Oh, and for insomnia, have you tried Benadryl? My doctor recommened it a few months ago, and I take 2 every night. I fall asleep easily, but it's not really a sleeping pill. It's worth a try.

Anonymous said...

#6. I got to try that!

My TT is up!

LadyLaker said...

Thank you for all the comments everyone! I just love to hear from everyone and also read what everyone else has to post!

Kelli: Happy TT to you too!
Southern Girl: crocheting is definitely relaxing but right now my Gramma has me crocheting these little circles that she needs for 5 blankets so I find it a little strenuous... just as you are getting a rythm the piece is done and on to the next!
Kristarella: I know what you mean by the feeling of being locked up inside all day! I hate it!
Somethings Missing: Happy TT to you too!
TC: I havent tried digital scrapbooking... is it something that you do online?
Nicole: I love to sit outside on a swing too or even in a comfy lawnchair and feel the warmth of the sun or the breeze... especially if I have a nice book to read!
Barbara: I would just die if I didnt have my computer!
Lyn: I will play the piano for you! lol
Dane Bramage: Blobbing is definitely a great way to relax... I am good at that too!
Mama Duck: I dont get much time to relax either with three kids to chase all the time I find my time to unwind is once the kids are in bed!
Zoe: My list is free for your referal.... if you ever need any other suggestions I am sure I am able to come up with other things too! lol